Here I go again…
It’s been hard for me to write this post as I seemed lost for words and it takes time to tell you dear readers… I will finally coming back HOME. I sure hope it is still “my home” though as I am a bit afraid after about being an expat for more than 3 years without even visiting the place unlike many other expats. I have been to anywhere except holidaying in my home Country isn’t it weird? It’s because of the tedious flying time of 18 hours straight or cut it in two to Australia 14 hours + Auckland 4 hours = 18 hours. Which is better? Even going back to my birth Country for a holiday is more or less 9 hours away from where we are at the moment (Abu Dhabi) which is really in the middle of Europe and Asia. So going to Australasia down under so to say… feels like so far far away!!
What to expect? I am freaking out actually. I heard so many stories about expats coming back home realizing it’s NOT the same as before or perhaps WE ARE NOT THE SAME AS BEFORE?. Even the roads will not be the same as when we left New Zealand in 2015 there are a lot of road works going on and adding some lanes and a tunnel etc. I’ve read that the almost rural place we go to for Farmers Market are now in demand and becoming a posh suburbs that we cannot even afford to buy a small land. Auckland is now one of the most expensive Cities in the World. Though our place is farther away from the City it is still ridiculously expensive! Good thing we have a house to come home to. There’s a scarcity in the housing market. A big problem indeed.
I think it’s better NO EXPECTATION. It can save me from whatever fear facing the future.
One thing for sure we will try to make this worth it. My son is growing and need more stability as for the past 3 years or more he has been to 3 different schools. Yes, it’s hard to say goodbye again. I cannot say No to being an expat again if this is the only way our family can stay together. Depends on the next contract of hubby. Just hoping he will also come home to us for good, that would be great! though not financially.
Now that I finally adjusted to the life here, I will miss a lot of brunches, friends parties, events and celebrations around here. I surrounded my life with many groups of mom’s like me in school, in our place, my closes friends and even acquaintances. FYI, I am one of those they call “trailing spouse” so yes I choose not to work (after working almost my whole life in 3 different Countries) so I am the nanny of my own child but unlike with nannies, I have a much better social network. It took me two long years to finally adjusted and accepted the life here and now we have to go for personal reason that cannot wait.
Life is easy here and less stress (except when driving haha!!) and I get used to this somehow that having to begin a new life in NZ seems a bit scary though exciting too to be honest. So many things to do and see places perhaps seeing it as an expat. We have to be re-acquainted to the Country. I am hoping we can adjust quickly… hopefully!
Are you an expats who came back home after years of life overseas? Please tell me your stories and perhaps I can learn from those. Feel free to give me an advice. Thanks!
Any expats coming home to New Zealand like me? Let me know or you can PM me.
Thanks for reading and cheers to the next journey!!